love

love is a word people use to get what they want. its supposed to be this emotion when its just a need. humans are born with the tendecies called self worth, self pity and a fear of loneliness. all emotions that make us dependant. make us crave for companionship. we need a person to say that they need us. we need someone to tell us that they will always be there. we need someone to tell us that they would always understand.

why do people fall in love and why do people seperate? many argue that sex is the most important part of love, but what is sex? isnt sex an extra curricular activity for most of us? isnt sex just another exercise? isnt it just a need? if sex was what glued people together why do people have sex with endless amounts of people?

people get married, people get divorced. some get married to have sex, yes. therefore after the initial euphoria the novelty wears off, they get divorced. but for many the sex can be great but they might end up divorced. why? how different do u think our lives are? what girls and boys life are? we have annoying habits. each and every one of us. things that the other person doesnt realise until they start living together. this is one reason too. whats the next most degenerate one? we take the person we say we love for granted. we dont beleive that they would leave us. we have this false sense of security. and we change. we dont kiss them good morning. we dont go shopping with them because theres a game on tv. things we did become things we dont remember to do. and the irony is that we dont know that we do this until its too late.

i dont believe in love. i believe in lust (attraction) and then understanding and more importantly acceptance. any too people can work out if they have these three qualities.

Its believed that your best friend can be the best life partner you could have. i believe this upto a certain limit because theres a limit to a friends understanding too. whatever the cause, whatever we do, whatever we believe in we are still humans.

for me love is not a pillar. its not the start and its not the end. i woudnt even agree that it does exist as a feeling. love is just a word people use to express their sexual and emotional insecurities, euphoria, fear and pain.